Four Lenses and the Holidays

“The holidays are coming, and each personality type experiences this season differently! Let me share some quick tips to help your family thrive during Thanksgiving and Christmas.
For your Blue children, the emotional aspects of the holidays matter most. They may feel overwhelmed by family tensions or worry about getting the ‘perfect’ gifts to show their love. Remind them that meaningful connection matters more than money spent.

Gold children thrive on holiday traditions and planning. They might get stressed if schedules are disrupted or plans change last minute. Give them specific tasks to manage, like organizing gift lists or helping plan the holiday menu.

Green children often prefer the intellectual side of the holidays. They might ask challenging questions about holiday traditions or seem detached from the emotional atmosphere. Engage them by discussing the history behind celebrations or involving them in strategic gift planning within a budget.

Orange children buzz with holiday excitement! They live for the fun and spontaneity but might struggle with waiting or sitting through long family meals. Channel their energy into active holiday preparations and let them help make celebrations more playful.

Remember – communication is key! Talk openly about gift expectations and budgets. Create space for each child to experience the holidays in their own way while teaching them to respect how others might feel differently.

Most importantly, focus on creating memories together. The best gift you can give your children is understanding and accepting their unique way of experiencing this special season.”